
We have a teenager in the house now, y'all!!!! December 29 was the day.
The folks we fellowship with each week joined with us to create a 13th birthday Rayray will always remember. On her birthday eve, we had a very special time of blessing over Rayray's life followed by a party.
Proverbs 18:21 says "
Death and life are in the power of the tongue." We chose to speak life over Rayray's life. Most everyone printed out their beautiful words so she will be able to read them again and again in the years to come.
Rayray asked for a purity ring for her birthday. We found a beautiful one
here that says "I will wait for" on the inside of the band and "my beloved" on the outside. We didn't have a ceremony or make her take a vow....just gave her the ring and will leave the rest up to her and Father.
She had her homeschool friends over on her birthday night. For 4 hours straight, this house full of teens ate and played Rock Band 2 and ate some more. It was lively, to say the least!

Here's a small portion of the blessing her Daddy and I wrote for Rayray:
As you enter this new season, we say goodbye to baby dolls, dress up clothes and the imaginary horse stables in the back yard. These next few years will be priceless and precious for us. It will be a time when you can begin to spread your wings in the safety of our home....a time for you to grow more and more in your personal walk with Jesus.We bless you with the understanding to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ for you. And to be flooded with the knowledge that you are loved beyond measure by Father and by your family. We bless you wtih the desire to love Jesus with all of your heart, soul, mind and strength. We bless you with His loving eyes and that every person you meet will be seen through His eyes...We bless you with a faith that stands firm on the solid rock, not shifting sand. We bless you with the mind of Christ...with a mind that dwells on whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, lovely, commendable, excellent...We bless you with a grateful heart and a desire to praise God for everything He has done, is doing, and will do in your life.....We bless you with a heart that is protected and kept pure and safe for the future spouse Father has for you. We bless your relationship with your earthly Daddy...may you always trust him to hold on to your heart as the Holy Spirit stands guard.We bless you with the freedom to follow Father anywhere He leads you and the wisdom to know His will........This is your journey, but always know your family will be there for you, cheering for you, encouraging you, loving you, praying for you, believing in you. Rayray, this world is a better place because you are in it. Your life, your kind heart and your sweet countenance are a blessing to all who meet you. May you be known as one who loves her family, her friends, and her Savior with all her heart. We love you....to the moon and back.